My question for you is, how do you tell your best friend to stop showing off her new boobs around my boyfriend? I think it’s great she went and got a boob job, I can tell a big difference in her self-esteem, but she’s always wearing super small, tight shirts and when she wears looser shirts, she doesn’t wear a bra and her nipples stick straight out and up. Of course, my boyfriend stares at them right in front of me and it makes me feel like I’m competing for his attention or that he wishes I had a bigger chest when we are all hanging out. I don’t want to hurt her feelings or burst her newfound confidence, but it’s really making me uncomfortable and I don’t want to have her hang around with me and my boyfriend if she’s going to do this.
Of course your boyfriend is going to check out your BFF’s rack - he wouldn't be a man otherwise. And she’s practically force-feeding his eyeballs her cleavage! But that doesn’t mean you have anything to worry about or that you need to upgrade your own chassis. Men look at everything: cars, girls, food, electronics, shiny things, porn … trust me, he is happy to have his very own doll he can play with whenever he wants – that’s you. But he still needs to be checked for being an asshole. Seriously.
As for your friend … hurt her feelings, boo. She’s flaunting her goodies in front of your boyfriend and it’s not on accident. She may not want your man, but she definitely wants the attention. Sometimes friends need to give friends a reality check. If she’s truly your best friend, she will understand how you feel and quit free-boobing it around your man and possibly get her own.
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