Friend code offender

I broke up with a guy I was dating for over a year because after all that time, even though I loved him, he couldn’t say he loved me back and I don’t want to be with someone that doesn’t love me. He used to text other girls and was a bit of a womanizer, although I accepted that, and even through that he still treated me like a princess so I miss him and want him back. 

Well, my best friend ended up hooking up with him and dating him. It lasted only a few months, so I guess that wasn’t true love either lol. She has since called and apologized and promised never to put a boy above our friendship again. I haven’t heard anything from him.

I guess my question is, should I even be mad at my ex and friend for hooking up with each other? It’s not like he cheated on me with her.

Are you kidding? Did you really just ‘lol’? Are you 13-years old or a grown woman?

Considering the story and question, I’m going to go with you just having the mentality of an attention-starved teenager – because any self-respecting, grown-ass chick would know the answer to this question.

YES. You should be mad - not only that, but furious! 

Maybe not at your ex - because he’s a douchenut and it’s expected that the moment you dumped him, he had plans on f***ing every one of your hot friends to show you … whatever it is guys think they are showing girls by going full whore after a break-up besides how gross-nasty they can be. 

 But your BFF?  You should not only be mad, you should also be disappointed in how little she respects you and the friendship to let a penis come between you – pun intended. Seriously, is there a shortage of guys in the town you live in that y’all have to recycle each other’s leftovers?

Look, bottom line is, she’s supposed to be your best friend. You were heartbroken over the relationship ending, whether he was an a**hole or not. Real friends support you, talk mad s*** about the ex with you and help design the blueprints of revenge over the dick that breaks your heart – not jump on it!

Sheesh! Promote your No. 2 friend to her new position as No. 1 BFF and move past this bad taste in your mouth.

Good luck!